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International Stress Awareness Day

International Stress Awareness Day

It’s International Stress Awareness Day. We wanted to highlight the types of stress, the effects of negative stress, and some ways to help cope with stress.

It is common for people to believe that all stress is negative, but that is not actually true. There is such a thing as positive stress, also known as eustress. Some positive examples of stress are starting a new job, having a baby, or graduating from college. Everyone comes face to face with stress; it is essential for survival and is a great motivator.

Negative stress, also known as distress, can be short term or long term. There are many situations that can cause us distress: loss of a loved one, a child struggling with school, or the loss of a job. When negative stress becomes long term, it can greatly impact you in many ways. You can experience brain fog, inability to focus, depression, anxiety, high blood pressure, low immune system, insomnia… the list goes on and on. That’s why it’s important to make time for yourself to de-stress!

What activities can you do to relax?

There are endless amounts of things you can do to relax and de-stress. We asked our therapists to share some ways that they de-stress.

Cindy, our Center Assistant, goes for a run and paints to Bob Ross videos. Exercise is a great way to cope with stress!

Laura Johnson, our Center Director, likes to pet her dogs and her cat. Studies show that petting your dog or cat can actually release beneficial hormones and lower cortisol, the primary stress hormone.

Caitlyn likes to take her dog for walk, and also enjoys drawing, listening to podcasts, and cooking.

Tamara goes for a run, or calls a good friend or family member. Surrounding yourself with loved ones is a great way to relax!

Jessica enjoys outdoor activities: yoga, going for a hike, tending to her garden. She likes to cook and surround herself with loved ones who can make her laugh. They say laughing is the best medicine… well, it can definitely help!

Melissa enjoys crafting. Photo projects, making greeting cards, etc. She also relaxes by food prepping, organizing, and being mindful with the family.

Erica unwinds by binge watching shows on Netflix and dancing.

Saryna enjoys fun projects, walking/exercising, talking to friends and family. Anything fun, relaxing, or nourishing.

Kimberly unwinds by watching something funny to get herself laughing.

There are many ways to unwind. Don’t be afraid to try something new! Take time for yourself, even if you have to schedule it into your calendar. It’s good for your health!

How to Get Help in San Jose/Los Gatos

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center in Silicon Valley specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

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What is CBT Anyway?

Cognitive Behavior Therapy 101

Often in our initial assessment appointment, a new client will ask “so what is Cognitive Behavior Therapy anyway?” Most people have read some about the disorder they are seeking help for and know that CBT is the treatment of choice, but CBT itself can be a mystery.

The CBT Viewpoint

In order to understand what CBT treatment is like, you first need to understand how CBT views problems like anxiety, depression and OCD. There are four parts: the triggering thought or situation, unhelpful or inaccurate thoughts about that situation, negative emotions, and maladaptive coping strategies. Here is the cycle illustrated with two examples:

Maladaptive coping strategies don’t work because they only relieve your negative feelings in the short term and keep you from learning anything new about the triggering situations. These behaviors end up reinforcing your unhelpful thoughts and the cycle continues.

CBT Strategies

Once you understand how CBT view problems, and apply it to the difficulties in your own life, you are ready to look for solutions. There are skills that can help you in each stage of the CBT cycle. No one strategy will work for everyone, but once you acquire some that work for you, you can start to unhook yourself from the cycle and new, healthier patterns develop.

* For the triggering thought or situation we teach mindfulness skills. Here the important thing to do is learn to notice your triggers in an objective non-judgmental way. For example, in the case above of the person having anxiety about giving a speech, we might teach her to notice when the thoughts and feelings creep up and say things like “I’m noticing more worries about this speech”. The key with mindfulness is to notice your symptoms without trying to change them. This nonjudgmental perspective sets the stage for the strategies that come next.

** Next comes cognitive restructuring. Our thoughts have strong effects on how we feel but just because we think something, doesn’t make it true. Cognitive restructuring involves learning to evaluate our thoughts for accuracy and helpfulness and, when we find a thought that is inaccurate or unhelpful, we replace it with something that helps us to see the situation more clearly and to act in accordance with our values.

*** Some of the strategies we use to cope with unpleasant emotions are emotional regulation skills, distress tolerance and activity scheduling. These strategies are aimed at helping you cope with an unpleasant emotions even if you can’t change them.

**** This last category involves changing our behavior response when faces with negative emotions. Often it involves doing the opposite of what our thoughts and feelings try to convince us to do. With behavioral activation, we schedule potentially rewarding and productive activities into the day to break an avoidant cycle. Exposure involves being in a feared situation without trying to escape or avoid feeling anxious. Behavior experiments involve testing out beliefs about ourselves and the world instead of assuming that our thoughts are true.

How to Get CBT for Anxiety and OCD Disorders in San Jose/Los Gatos and Sacramento/Roseville

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) near the following Sacramento Valley and Sierra communities:

Sacramento Therapy CounselingRoseville Therapy Counseling • Rocklin Therapy Counseling • Granite Bay Therapy Counseling • Lincoln Therapy CounselingFolsom Therapy Counseling • Citrus Heights Therapy Counseling •  El Dorado Hills Therapy Counseling • Loomis Therapy CounselingGrass Valley Therapy Counseling  • Auburn Therapy Counseling

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