Archive for OCD

Disclosing Your OCD

Disclosing a mental illness to someone can be very anxiety provoking, but it can also be a good step in the right direction towards recovery. There are many things to consider when disclosing to another. What do you disclose, how much do you disclose, who do you disclose to, when do you disclose… the list goes on and on. The International OCD Foundation posted a blog with tips on how to disclose your OCD and how to receive disclosure compassionately as a loved one. We have summarized below some of the tips they shared in their blog.

Tips to help disclose your OCD to a loved one:

  • You don’t have to tell them you have OCD. Not everyone understands diagnostic terms, or all the details of OCD. There are many different types of OCD and it’s different for everyone. They recommend sharing some of what you are experiencing. For example, sharing with them that you’re having troubling intrusive thoughts.
  • Remember the purpose of your disclosure: to show your loved one you have been in pain and for them to empathize with you. This will help you determine how much information you want to share with them and how in depth you want to be.
  • Realize no one will be able to understand you 100%. Your OCD belongs to you, and no one else. It is likely that people with OCD may experience things very similar to you, but each individual is different. Your loved one doesn’t need to understand you completely to emphasize with you or support you.

Tips for loved ones receiving this information:

  • Acknowledge their pain and empathize with them. It took a lot for them to open up to you, acknowledge that. Don’t press for more information or go straight into problem-solving mode. Take a moment to be present.
  • Accommodating their OCD won’t help them, but you also shouldn’t immediately stop all accommodations. Work with them to reduce your involvement in their rituals. A therapist can help with this process.

To read the article on the IOCDF website, click here!

How to Get Help for OCD in San Jose/Los Gatos

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center in Silicon Valley (San Jose/Los Gatos) specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Call us in Los Gatos at (408) 384-8404 or Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

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Saratoga: (408) 384-8404
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Everyday Mindfulness for OCD

Everyday Mindfulness for OCD: Tips, Tricks and Skills for Living Joyfully

By Jon Hershfield and Shala Nicely

Written by two clinicians who are honest about having their own personal struggles with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Everyday Mindfulness for OCD offers a unique perspective on strategies for staying one step ahead of OCD symptoms. As the title implies, the authors present tips not for just living despite OCD, but for living joyfully with OCD.

This book is not an introductory manual for OCD, instead filling a need for those who are further along in their treatment. It is tailored towards those who already have a solid understanding of OCD and exposure and response prevention, but are looking for more ideas to increase or maintain progress long-term. It may be helpful as a supplement to therapy, or as a secondary book for those who have already completed a self help treatment workbook.

Everyday Mindfulness for OCD is divided into three sections: mindfulness and self compassion, daily tools and games to promote joyful living, and long-term mastery over OCD. The strategies presented feel very practical and concrete. The authors’ suggestions regarding self-compassion seem especially useful, as self-compassion skills can be difficult to develop, yet essential to living a joyful life. There are also a variety of exposure games included, which offer a great way to mix up your ERP practice.

How to Get Help for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder in San Jose/Los Gatos and Sacramento/Roseville

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) near the following Sacramento Valley and Sierra communities:

Sacramento Therapy CounselingRoseville Therapy Counseling • Rocklin Therapy Counseling • Granite Bay Therapy Counseling • Lincoln Therapy CounselingFolsom Therapy Counseling • Citrus Heights Therapy Counseling •  El Dorado Hills Therapy Counseling • Loomis Therapy CounselingGrass Valley Therapy Counseling  • Auburn Therapy Counseling

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OCD Awareness Week 2018

It’s OCD Awareness Week!

October 7th – 13th

OCD Awareness WeekOCD Awareness Week is an international community effort to raise awareness and understanding about OCD and related disorders. OCD affects up to 4 million people in the United States alone. The goal of the week is to help more people to get timely access to appropriate and effective treatment.

Locally, Rogers Behavioral Health in Walnut Creek is hosting a free community event on Saturday, October 13th from 9:30am-1:30pm. The event will include a series of brief educational talks and discussions for adults with OCD and their loved ones, as well as for families with children or teens with OCD. Interested in attending the Rogers Behavioral Health event? You can find more information by clicking here!

The International OCD Foundation has many ways you can participate and promote OCD awareness! Want to get more involved? Start by clicking here.

What is CBT Anyway?

Cognitive Behavior Therapy 101

Often in our initial assessment appointment, a new client will ask “so what is Cognitive Behavior Therapy anyway?” Most people have read some about the disorder they are seeking help for and know that CBT is the treatment of choice, but CBT itself can be a mystery.

The CBT Viewpoint

In order to understand what CBT treatment is like, you first need to understand how CBT views problems like anxiety, depression and OCD. There are four parts: the triggering thought or situation, unhelpful or inaccurate thoughts about that situation, negative emotions, and maladaptive coping strategies. Here is the cycle illustrated with two examples:

Maladaptive coping strategies don’t work because they only relieve your negative feelings in the short term and keep you from learning anything new about the triggering situations. These behaviors end up reinforcing your unhelpful thoughts and the cycle continues.

CBT Strategies

Once you understand how CBT view problems, and apply it to the difficulties in your own life, you are ready to look for solutions. There are skills that can help you in each stage of the CBT cycle. No one strategy will work for everyone, but once you acquire some that work for you, you can start to unhook yourself from the cycle and new, healthier patterns develop.

* For the triggering thought or situation we teach mindfulness skills. Here the important thing to do is learn to notice your triggers in an objective non-judgmental way. For example, in the case above of the person having anxiety about giving a speech, we might teach her to notice when the thoughts and feelings creep up and say things like “I’m noticing more worries about this speech”. The key with mindfulness is to notice your symptoms without trying to change them. This nonjudgmental perspective sets the stage for the strategies that come next.

** Next comes cognitive restructuring. Our thoughts have strong effects on how we feel but just because we think something, doesn’t make it true. Cognitive restructuring involves learning to evaluate our thoughts for accuracy and helpfulness and, when we find a thought that is inaccurate or unhelpful, we replace it with something that helps us to see the situation more clearly and to act in accordance with our values.

*** Some of the strategies we use to cope with unpleasant emotions are emotional regulation skills, distress tolerance and activity scheduling. These strategies are aimed at helping you cope with an unpleasant emotions even if you can’t change them.

**** This last category involves changing our behavior response when faces with negative emotions. Often it involves doing the opposite of what our thoughts and feelings try to convince us to do. With behavioral activation, we schedule potentially rewarding and productive activities into the day to break an avoidant cycle. Exposure involves being in a feared situation without trying to escape or avoid feeling anxious. Behavior experiments involve testing out beliefs about ourselves and the world instead of assuming that our thoughts are true.

How to Get CBT for Anxiety and OCD Disorders in San Jose/Los Gatos and Sacramento/Roseville

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) near the following Sacramento Valley and Sierra communities:

Sacramento Therapy CounselingRoseville Therapy Counseling • Rocklin Therapy Counseling • Granite Bay Therapy Counseling • Lincoln Therapy CounselingFolsom Therapy Counseling • Citrus Heights Therapy Counseling •  El Dorado Hills Therapy Counseling • Loomis Therapy CounselingGrass Valley Therapy Counseling  • Auburn Therapy Counseling

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Overcoming Unwanted Thoughts

Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts: A CBT-Based Guide to Getting Over Frightening, Obsessive, or Disturbing Thoughts

By: Sally M. Winston and Martin N. Seif

If you have ever struggled with unwanted intrusive thoughts, thoughts such as: “what if I get into a terrible car accident?”, “I could just jump off of this building since there’s no guard rail”, or “maybe I did something illegal in the past and I just don’t fully remember”, you are not alone. Research shows that millions of people are often plagued by upsetting worries that they just can’t shake away or disturbing ideas or images that feel very opposite of their values and character. Many individuals find these thoughts frightening and become concerned that the thoughts could be messages or say something about them as a person. In the book Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts: A CBT-Based Guide to Getting Over Frightening, Obsessive, or Disturbing Thoughts, the authors provide extensive education about what intrusive thoughts are and where they come from, helping the reader to understand this very important concept: thoughts are just thoughts, and they don’t have to mean anything at all.

The authors describe in great detail the neurobiology that leads our brains to become more stuck on unwanted thoughts and the common strategies to get rid of these thoughts that tend to backfire, resulting in those thoughts popping up more and more often. They also present and challenge several myths about our thoughts, helping to normalize thoughts that many people may feel too nervous to share with others. Finally, they present a simple, CBT-based approach to coping with these thoughts and bringing your focus and energy back to the things in life that you really value.

How to Get Help for intrusive thoughts – San Jose/Los Gatos and Sacramento/Roseville

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) near the following Sacramento Valley and Sierra communities:

Sacramento Therapy CounselingRoseville Therapy Counseling • Rocklin Therapy Counseling • Granite Bay Therapy Counseling • Lincoln Therapy CounselingFolsom Therapy Counseling • Citrus Heights Therapy Counseling •  El Dorado Hills Therapy Counseling • Loomis Therapy CounselingGrass Valley Therapy Counseling  • Auburn Therapy Counseling

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OCD Specialty Outpatient Clinic for the OCD Foundation

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center Designated a Specialty Outpatient Clinic by International OCD Foundation

OCD Foundation LogoThe Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley has been designated as a Specialty Outpatient Clinic by the International OCD Foundation. A Specialty Outpatient Clinic is defined as:
1) A minimum of three, licensed clinicians who maintain a professional membership in the IOCDF working in the same outpatient clinic.
2) These clinicians should have 10 combined years experience treating OCD and related disorders.
3) The identified clinic advertises itself as a facility where the primary focus is on the treatment of OCD and/or related disorders.

https://iocdf.org/clinics/cognitive-behavior-therapy-center-of-silicon-valley/
https://iocdf.org/clinics/cognitive-behavior-therapy-center-of-sacramento-valley/

How to Get Help for OCD in San Jose/Saratoga and Sacramento/Roseville

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Centerspecializes in Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members overcome OCD.

Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and Eating Disorders near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Eating Disorders near the following Sacramento Valley and Sierra communities:

Sacramento Therapy CounselingRoseville Therapy Counseling • Rocklin Therapy Counseling • Granite Bay Therapy Counseling • Lincoln Therapy CounselingFolsom Therapy Counseling • Citrus Heights Therapy Counseling •  El Dorado Hills Therapy Counseling • Loomis Therapy CounselingGrass Valley Therapy Counseling  • Auburn Therapy Counseling

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Book Review: Same Time Next Week

Stories of Hope and Resilience in Mental Health

Read Laura Johnson’s book review of “Same Time Next Week” on Positive Psychology New Daily:

http://positivepsychologynews.com/news/laura-lc-johnson/2015060331717

How to Get Help for Anxiety, OCD and Anxiety-Related Problems

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley specializes in Anxiety, OCD and Anxiety-Related Problems in adults, children and teenagers. We have two convenient locations to serve you.

The Silicon Valley office in Saratoga serves the Santa Clara County communities of San Jose, Saratoga, Mountain View, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, Los Gatos, Los Altos, Palo Alto, Cupertino, Campbell and surrounding areas.

The Sacramento Valley office in Roseville serves the Placer County and Sacramento County communities of Sacramento, Roseville, Rocklin, Granite Bay, Lincoln, Folsom, Citrus Heights, El Dorado Hills, Loomis, Auburn, Penryn, Grass Valley, Colfax and surrounding areas.

Email us for more information on how we can help you overcome your anxiety-related problems.

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley Opens in Roseville

New CBT Center of Anxiety and OCD Opening in Roseville, CA

Douglas Blvd Sacramento RegionOn June 1st, the Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center is expanding to the Sacramento Valley with a new branch office in Roseville, CA. The name of the new office is Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley. With our convenient location on Douglas Boulevard in Roseville just minutes from I-80, the new CBT Center will serve the communities of Sacramento, Roseville, Rocklin, Granite Bay, Lincoln, Folsom, Citrus Heights, El Dorado Hills, Loomis, Penryn, Grass Valley, Colfax, Auburn and surrounding areas.

Anxiety and OCD Therapy for Adults, Children and Teens in Roseville/Sacramento Valley

At the Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley in Roseville, we will continue to offer high quality and compassionate evidence-based therapy for adults, children and teenagers with anxiety and OCD. The Roseville office will provide therapy for all of the various anxiety disorders including generalized anxiety (GAD), panic disorder, agoraphobia, specific phobias, social anxiety, selective mutism, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), trichotillomania/hair pulling, skin picking, Tourette Syndrome/tic disorders, eating disorders, and other anxiety-related problems.

Our Current CBT Center in Silicon Valley

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley currently has a successful anxiety and OCD center in Saratoga, CA, with six therapists and a center assistant serving the San Jose region. We will replicate the high quality of evidence-based services for Anxiety and OCD offered in the Silicon Valley in the Sacramento Valley. The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Centers of Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley are divisions of Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center, Adult & Child Counseling, Inc. The CBT Center of Sacramento Valley in Roseville will be our second major location.

Contact the Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley

From our office in Roseville just minutes from I-80, we are conveniently located to serve all of Placer County, Sacramento County and surrounding communities. Call (408) 384-8404 or Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members overcome your anxiety-related issues.

 

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Sacramento Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Eating Disorders near the following Sacramento Valley and Sierra communities:

Sacramento Therapy CounselingRoseville Therapy Counseling • Rocklin Therapy Counseling • Granite Bay Therapy Counseling • Lincoln Therapy CounselingFolsom Therapy Counseling • Citrus Heights Therapy Counseling •  El Dorado Hills Therapy Counseling • Loomis Therapy CounselingGrass Valley Therapy Counseling  • Auburn Therapy Counseling

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(916) 778-0771 or Click to send an email

Radically-Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy (RO-DBT)

RO-DBT: Your Path to a More Flexible Life and Joyful Experiences

Laura Johnson, LMFT, LPCC, Center Director, attended a two-day workshop on Radically-Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy (RO-DBT) led by its founder, Thomas Lynch, PhD, Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Southampton, UK. RO-DBT is an evidence-based approach to help individuals become more flexible in their thinking and responding, more open to life experiences that create joy and happiness, and build intimacy and social connections. RO-DBT can be particularly helpful for individuals with inflexible, rigid personality styles who are susceptible to certain types of anxiety disorders, depression, OCD, perfectionism, anorexia and autism. RO-DBT includes many of the skills taught in traditional DBT but also teaches an entirely new set of skills to increase flexibility and reduce rigidity.

RO-DBT Theory

The theory behind RO-DBT is that children with an “over controlled” temperament are more likely to develop internalizing disorders such as anxiety and depression and become socially isolated as adults. “Overcontrol” is defined as an emotionally constricted, shy and risk averse temperament. In appropriate amounts, overcontrol is a positive trait. You may desire to exceed expectations and perform well, value rules and fairness, delay gratification to achieve goals, and have a high sense of duty, obligation and self-sacrifice.

On the other hand, individuals who develop a excessively overcontrolled style may have a need to appear perfect (planning ahead, being right, stressing orderliness and structure), follow rules (always doing the right thing, being prepared, smiling even when unhappy) and have high pain tolerance (able to work really hard and delay or minimize joy and fun).

Goals of RO-DBT

The goal in RO-DBT is to help individuals develop optimal control that is neither over- or under-controlled.

RO-DBT starts with defining what’s healthy and what’s not. Its interventions strive to build these positive traits including:

  • Receptivity and Openness to new experiences (as opposed to high risk aversion, hypervigilance for threat, avoidance of novelty and discounting of constructive feedback)
  • Flexible Responding to adapt to changes in the environment (instead of compulsive needs for structure and order, hyper-perfectionism, compulsive planning/rehearsal, and rigid rule-governed behavior)
  • Emotional Expression and Awareness to have genuine emotional experiences (as opposed to inhibited expressions or fake expressions and low self-awareness or minimizing of feelings)
  • Intimacy and Connection to form long-lasting bonds (instead of aloof/distant relationships, excessive social comparison, envy and bitterness, and low empathy and validation skills)

Ways to Build Flexibility, Openness and Social Connection

In addition to most of the traditional DBT skills, RO-DBT also teaches additional new skills  to build the qualities of flexibility, openness and social connection including:

Radical Oppenness Skills LegosRadical Openness Skills Module is a completely new skills module where you will learn to change your physiology, engage in new behaviors, learn from constructive feedback, validation skills, build compassion and forgiveness, stimulate positive emotions toward yourself and social connectedness with others through loving kindness meditation,verbal and non-verbal skills to signal openness and friendliness, and communication of emotions to increase social connection and reduce social isolation and loneliness.

Mindfulness Skills to recognize when you are in fixed mind vs. fatalistic mind and how to get to flexible mind and to teach self inquiry.

Emotion Regulation Skills to reduce envy, bitterness, resentment and revenge.

Some Examples of RO-DBT Skills

There are three steps involved in building the skill of Radical Openness:

  1. Acknowledge the presence of unwanted or uncomfortable feelings such as irritation, tension in the body, negative emotions or feelings of uncertainty
  2. Turn toward the discomfort and use Self-Inquiry to ask yourself, “What do I need to learn from this?” instead of automatically distracting or accepting
  3. Flexibly Respond by doing what’s needed in the moment

Practicing being open to feedback from others includes the following steps:

  1. Acknowledge the feedback
  2. Describe your emotions, sensations, thoughts and images
  3. Be Open to new information by cheerleading yourself, adopting an open body stance, and fully listening to the feedback
  4. Pinpoint what the new behavior is and confirm
  5. Try out the new behavior
  6. Self-soothe and reward yourself
How To Get Help in Building Flexibility and Other Positive Traits

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley specializes in helping individuals change unhelpful thinking and coping styles and build flexibility, openness and social connection. With our convenient location just a half mile from Highway 85 and the Saratoga Avenue exit, we serve the Silicon Valley communities of San Jose, Saratoga, Mountain View, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, Los Gatos, Los Altos, Cupertino and Campbell, CA. We also have a CBT Online Video Therapy Program for clients in California who live to far away to drive for our specialized therapy in person. Contact us at (408) 384-8404 for more information on how we can help you manage you become more flexible, open and joyful.

2014 Annual OCD Conference

 

OCD Foundation’s Annual Conference

OCD ConferenceI recently attended the 21st annual OCD Conference in Los Angeles put on by the International OCD Foundation. The conference was well organized and had a wide variety of session topics from highly respected speakers in the field of OCD and OCD spectrum disorders with respect to research and treatment. By OCD spectrum, I’m referring to issues such as Trichotillomania, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, Hoarding, and Tourette’s Disorder. One aspect of this conference I appreciated was that attendees were not just treatment professionals, but included children, teens and adults with OCD, parents of children with OCD looking for support, and researchers. Not surprisingly, the overwhelming majority of treatment discussions focused on Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP). ERP is the gold standard for treatment of OCD for all age groups. ERP involves identifying the underlying obsession(s), illuminating the patterns of being triggered and engaging in compulsions, developing a fear hierarchy and finally defining response prevention guidelines.

OCD Treatment with Children and Teens

Because I enjoy working with children and have a number of children with OCD on my caseload at any given time, I attended several talks geared toward OCD treatment for children and teens. A few of these were intended for children with OCD and others had content intended for treatment professionals. One of the talks I attended was about developing an effective toolbox for beating OCD, geared toward children with the disorder. One of the tools imparted on the attendees was knowledge about the adaptive nature of anxiety; for instance, when your heart races, it’s the body’s way of pumping blood to your muscles faster to help with fight or flight actions; when your body sweats, it’s so the body is slick if an attacker grabs onto you. So reduction in fear of anxiety itself can be a good first step. Another tool they wanted to arm attendees with was knowledge and experience with ERP. They helped the kids in the audience identify which type of OCD thoughts they had and as a group, we brainstormed ways to engage in exposures by figuring out how to test contamination fears, for instance, by exposure to different things in the meeting room we were in.

Using Mobile Apps for OCD

Teen OCD Cell PhoneAnother session I attended was geared toward mobile applications that can help kids and teens develop exposures using cell phones and tablets. One of the applications that was highlighted turns spoken fears into songs that the child or teen can listen back to as exposure homework. The goal of this application is to turn a fear into something slightly comical or entertaining through song and music. By creating a competing reaction, like laughter, the fear diminishes because it’s fairly difficult to be entertained and laughing while also being fearful or scared. A second mobile application discussed in the presentation is useful with fears of harming others. The essential feature of this application allows users to create characters based on people they fear harming, and then allows them to virtually kill these people through the application. In essence, the user is acting out the feared behavior in a virtual world while still eliciting the anxiety. Both applications are useful in situations where an in vivo exposure is either not appropriate or difficult to execute.

Insight Helps with Beating OCD

Insight is a valuable tool in therapy. Research indicates that lack of insight with OCD is associated with greater symptom severity and higher risk for co-morbidity, or an additional diagnosis or clinical issue. I attended a panel discussion that focused on the role insight in the treatment of OCD and BDD among others disorders. Insight is not fixed and can be encouraged and modeled through the therapeutic process. Overvalued ideation was another concept tossed around that looks similar to insight but refers to the strength of conviction about a belief. Without insight, it’s difficult for someone dealing with OCD to entertain the idea that the rituals aren’t accurate. Lastly, the panel mentioned that when insight is low and progress is difficult to come by, psychopharmacological options can be helpful.

 

Health Anxiety Sub-Types

Health anxietyThere is a fair amount of overlap between health-related OCD and Somatic Symptom Disorder (SSD), formerly known as Hypochondriasis. Similar features include having thoughts about an illness, repeated self-checking, reassurance seeking with medical tests, doubting test results, and over-concern with the significance of bodily sensations. One of the main differences between the two is that with SSD, sufferers frequently experience visceral physical sensations, whereas OCD sufferers experience doubtful dysperceptions. It can be useful to think of health-related OCD and SSD on a continuum of doubt with OCD sufferers having considerable doubt and SSD sufferers having much less doubt. Exposure and Response Prevention can be an effective intervention with SSD as well OCD.

Another concept mentioned in the SSD vs. health-related OCD presentation was iCompulsions or CyberChondriasis, which both relate to the act of mining websites like WebMD for health and treatment information as a form of reassurance-seeking. This behavior typically results in an increase in anxiety from increased focus on the physical sensation or discomfort. This can quite easily lead to catastrophizing thoughts about what a possible diagnosis might be. Even for individuals without SSD or OCD, seeking health information online can be a confusing, scary and misleading process. So combined with a hyperfocus on physical symptoms and/or persistent doubt, it’s understandable to see how SSD and OCD can develop.

Face Your Fears!

And lastly, a quote that was provided during the conference that I think gets at the heart of ERP is as follows: “Do the thing you fear the most, and it will be the certain death of it,” attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson.

Overcome Fear

Exposure & Response Prevention for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Exposure and Response (Ritual) Prevention for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Exposure and Response Prevention OCD PennI recently attended intensive training in Exposure and Response Prevention for OCD at the Center for the Treatment and Study of Anxiety at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia. In addition to terrific presentations by Dr. Elna Yadin, OCD Clinic Director, and staff members, we were honored with a Q&A session with Dr. Edna Foa. While I already considered myself a skilled therapist in treating OCD, this training helped refine my skills in systematically implementing a specialized form of OCD treatment called “Exposure and Response (Ritual) Prevention,” also know as EX/RP or ERP.

What is Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)?

Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) is a neurological disorder that causes severe anxiety/distress and affects your thinking and behavior. OCD tends to attack the things you value the most. When you feel anxious, it might feel like you are in danger. OCD tells you to respond, react, protect yourself, and do something to get rid of the distress. You might recognize that the fear is excessive or doesn’t make sense, yet it still feels very real, intense, and true. If you have OCD, the warning system in your brain is not working correctly. Your brain is telling you that you are in danger when you are not.

Common Types of OCD

Obsessions are unwanted, intrusive thoughts, images, or impulses that occur over and over again and feel out of your control. They are disturbing, anxiety-provoking and perhaps even disgusting to you. Common obsessions include contamination from germs, bodily fluids, diseases, or chemicals; causing or failing to prevent harm to others; fear of losing control; sexual, religious or morally offensive thoughts and images; perfectionism; and not-just-right feelings.

Compulsions are repetitive behaviors or mental rituals that you engage in to neutralize, undo or make your anxiety go away. Compulsions can also include avoiding situations that trigger obsessions. Common compulsions include checking, washing and cleaning, repeating an action, putting things in order, praying, counting, mental review, reassurance seeking, apologizing and confessing. These actions are designed to prevent or reduce emotional discomfort and avoid the occurrence of a dreaded event. Compulsions tend to provide temporary relief but the obsessions soon return.

It is important to note that OCD comes in many different forms and no two OCD sufferers are alike in their combination of obsessions and compulsions as well as the meaning they attribute to their feared catastrophe.

What is Exposure and Response (Ritual) Prevention (EX/RP)?

In a nutshell, EX/RP consists of exposing you to the triggers that cause anxiety and fear and teaching you to resist doing any compulsions or rituals to reduce the distress. The basic principles of EX/RP can be boiled down to three steps that need to be practiced consistently to overcome OCD:

  1. Confront the things you fear as often as possible.
  2. If you feel like you have to avoid something, don’t.
  3. If you feel like you have to perform a ritual to feel better, don’t.

With EX/RP, your brain learns that you can tolerate anxiety and that your anxiety will eventually come down without rituals. Your brain will learn that the feared catastrophe does not happen or that you could handle it if it did. And you may start to realize just how ridiculous or unrealistic your obsessional fears are and how much OCD is taking away from your life. Basically, OCD is a bully! We will teach you how to take charge and not give OCD the attention it craves.

The main treatment components of EX/RP include:

  • Assessment, Education and Treatment Planning: We’ll identify all your triggers, obsessional fears and related rituals and make a plan to systematically approach your fears without engaging in rituals. We will also teach you about the sneaky ways OCD tries to trick you and lies to you. You will learn that OCD is like a “tic” in the brain that is trying to protect you but instead OCD is making you a slave and ruining your life.
  • In Vivo Exposure: Exposures are the heart of OCD treatment. In this step, we will expose you to real life triggers that elicit fear, anxiety and/or disgust in a gradual hierarchical manner. We will start with easy exposures and, as you gain confidence you can cope with your anxiety, we will move up the hierarchy to confront situations that are more challenging.
  • Imaginal Exposure: This involves prolonged exposure in your imagination to your worst fears without doing any rituals. We’ll develop a script (or series of scripts) for you to record and listen to every day until you are no longer scared of the content of your obsessions and you can visualize yourself facing your fear without any rituals.
  • Response (Ritual) Prevention: RP is the identification and elimination of all physical and mental compulsions so you can learn you can cope with distress without doing rituals or avoidance. You will learn that while your rituals reduce anxiety/distress in the short term, they are not building your courage that you can handle anxiety without them. Rituals are actually fuel to OCD’s fire and maintain the OCD cycle.
  • Cognitive Processing: The key to long term, permanent change is gaining new beliefs and increasing your self-confidence. OCD is making you believe things that aren’t true and exaggerating the danger of your fears. In order to help you overcome OCD, we won’t tell you what to think because OCD will just argue with you. Instead, we’ll discuss what you have actually learned through your EX/RP activities and reinforce your experiential learning in order to create new beliefs about the meaning of your obsessions.

Treatment Description

In EX/RP, you will purposely experience your obsessive thoughts without ritualizing so you can learn that your discomfort/anxiety will come down and your fear is eventually extinguished. With your therapist, you will develop a hierarchy of exposures that will elicit your obsessional fear and we’ll develop a plan for systematically targeting each of the items. We’ll identify both behavioral and mental rituals to eliminate. EX/RP generally takes about 20 sessions total. We recommend two 75-minute sessions per week to help you maintain continuity and motivation in doing the exposures and to progress more quickly to relieve your suffering.

Initial Evaluation Session

The goal of the initial evaluation session is to learn about your background and history as well as determine what type of anxiety you have. If the diagnosis is OCD, then we will discuss the EX/RP treatment approach and determine if it is a good fit for you. We will also begin to assess your motivation since completing daily exposures in between sessions is essential to success in this program.

Information Gathering and Education

In the next one to two sessions, we will gather a lot of information about the content of your obsessions, types of compulsions/rituals you use to reduce obsessive fears, and the feared consequences if you are unable to perform your rituals. We will use a standardized assessment tool called the YBOCS, which helps us assess all the OCD symptoms and rate the severity of your OCD from mild, moderate to severe. You will also be asked to monitor your OCD symptoms throughout the week. The goal of this phase is to develop a thorough understanding of your obsessions and compulsions and the situations likely to trigger them. We will continue to assess your motivation for treatment and how much support you will need by the therapist and family members in implementing your EX/RP plan.

Treatment Planning

Next, we will spend one to two sessions determining what the feared catastrophe is, creating the hierarchy, identifying and ranking the order of exposures, deciding whether imaginal exposure is needed, creating the plan for reducing and eliminating rituals, and deciding whether exposure requires travel outside the therapist’s office such as a home visit. The question often arises as to whether we need to create different hierarchies for each type of OCD. While this may be helpful when the OCDs seem completely unrelated to one another, it is often not needed because the ultimate fear is often the same for all the OCDs. By creating one master hierarchy and working on fears by level of discomfort/anxiety, you will learn the principles of treatment and the therapy often generalizes more effectively from one symptom to the next.

To create a hierarchy, you and your therapist will generate a list of all the situations that provoke obsessive fear and avoidance behavior. We will then ask you to rate how much distress each situation causes for you on a scale of 0 to 100 and we will place the items in order from easiest to hardest. We generally start working on exposures rated in the 40-50 range and progress to harder exposures and the easier ones are mastered.

Imaginal exposures are used when engaging in the actual situation is not possible in real life, when your feared consequences are so far into the future that they can not be disconfirmed, or when you have so much fear approaching the real life situations that we need to start with thinking about the situation before progressing to actual exposures.

Exposure and Response Prevention Treatment

EX/RP treatment begins when we start working on the first situation on your hierarchy. Generally, 15 exposure sessions are recommended but some people with mild OCD may progress more rapidly while others with more severe OCD may need extra sessions. We will start with doing exposures during the therapy session and then assign the same exposure as homework for you to practice on your own. When your distress significantly declines and you no longer fear the situation, then we will move to the next item on the hierarchy. Since we are starting with items you ranked at a moderate level and only moving up when your distress has declined, it makes working on the harder items on the hierarchy feel much easier. If you find that you are not feeling a reduction of anxiety within 45 minutes, then we have probably underestimated the difficulty of that situation and we would move to an easier item. If we are working at the right pace, you should be feeling challenged in exposure sessions but not so uneasy that you can’t do it.

While doing exposures, you will not be allowed to perform any rituals to undo the anxiety or distress. Sometimes we may allow you to modify a ritual to allow you to approach situations that are more difficult and higher on the hierarchy but our goal will be to quickly eliminate the all rituals associated with that situation. We want your brain to learn that it can face your fears and overcome obsessional fears without doing any rituals.

A key to success in EX/RP is changing how you relate to the meaning of danger created by your OCD. This is called cognitive processing, where we will discuss what you learned from the exposure without doing your normal rituals. We will stress that the content of your obsessions doesn’t matter because OCD will latch onto whatever is important to you. Most people have multiple types of OCD and notice it morphs and evolves over time into new symptoms. We want you to learn the general principles of EX/RP so you can “zap” whatever part of your life OCD wants to target in the future.

We will move up the hierarchy as quickly as you can tolerate it. When all the items on your hierarchy no longer cause distress and you are no longer performing rituals to reduce anxiety, then we can formally end the EX/RP treatment phase.

Relapse Prevention

Generally, we’ll plan on two to three relapse prevention sessions spaced out over time. OCD symptoms often wax and wane with stress and life transitions. Relapse prevention consists of reviewing your progress, identifying the tools you can use to manage any future OCD flare ups, identifying and planning how to handle potential future stressors, and knowing the warning signs of OCD and how you can treat it yourself with your tools, especially self-exposure.

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OCPD vs. OCD: What’s the Difference?

What is Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD)?

OCPDObsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD) is a type of “personality disorder” with these characteristics:

  • Rigid adherence to rules and regulations
  • An overwhelming need for order
  • Unwillingness to yield or give responsibilities to others
  • A sense of righteousness about the way things “should be done”

What are the symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD)?

  • Excessive devotion to work that impairs social and family activities
  • Excessive fixation with lists, rules and minor details
  • Perfectionism that interferes with finishing tasks
  • Rigid following of moral and ethical codes
  • Unwillingness to assign tasks unless others perform exactly as asked
  • Lack of generosity; extreme frugality without reason
  • Hoarding behaviors

What is the difference between Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD) and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

  • People with OCD have insight, meaning they are aware that their unwanted thoughts are unreasonable. People with OCPD think their way is the “right and best way” and usually feel comfortable with such self-imposed systems of rules.
  • The thoughts, behaviors and feared consequences common to OCD are typically not relevant to real-life concerns; people with OCPD are fixated with following procedures to manage daily tasks.
  • Often OCD interferes in several areas in the person’s life including work, social and/or family life. OCPD usually interferes with interpersonal relationships, but makes work functioning more efficient. It is not the job itself that is hurt by OCPD traits, but the relationships with co-workers, or even employers can be strained.
  • Typically, people with OCPD don’t believe they require treatment. They believe that if everyone else conformed to their strict rules, things would be fine. The threat of losing a job or a relationship due to interpersonal conflict may be the motivator for therapy. This is in contrast to people with OCD who feel tortured by their unwanted thoughts and rituals, and are more aware of the unreasonable demands that the symptoms place on others, often feeling guilty because of this.
  • Family members of people with OCPD often feel extremely criticized and controlled by people with OCPD. Similar to living with someone with OCD, being ruled under OCPD demands can be very frustrating and upsetting, often leading to conflict.

What causes Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD)?

There is no single, specific “cause” identified. Several theories suggest that people with OCPD may have been raised by parents who were unavailable and either overly controlling or overly protective. Also, as children they may have been harshly punished. The OCPD traits may have developed as a sort of coping mechanism to avoid punishment, in an effort to be “perfect” and obedient.

Therapy for Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD)

The goal of therapy is to lessen rigid expectations and learn how to value close relationships, recreation, and fun with less emphasis on work and productivity. Therapy can lead to greater insight into how someone’s OCPD symptoms affect others. It often takes the threat of the loss of a relationship or job to motivate people with OCPD seek treatment because they typically don’t think there is anything “wrong” with the way they are. If motivated to change, cognitive behavior therapy, particularly schema therapy, holds much promise.

Getting Help for Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD)

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley specializes in long term personality change using CBT and schema therapy. With our convenient location just a 1/2 mile from highways 85 and the Saratoga Avenue exit, we serve the Silicon Valley communities of San Jose, Saratoga, Mountain View, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, Los Gatos, Los Altos, Palo Alto, Cupertino and Campbell, CA. Contact us at (408) 384-8404 for more information on how we can help you overcome the rigid patterns related to an obsessive compulsive personality.

Do You or a Loved One Have OCD?

OCD Quiz: Do You Have Symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder?

Woman with OCDThe following questionnaire will help you identify the types of problems and symptoms that most trouble you. Don’t be surprised if you check more than one item in several groups. Many people have more than one type of OCD symptoms. In addition, OCD can appear in many different forms so it is possible that your particular symptoms are not on this list.

Typical OCD Symptoms

What symptoms bothered you? Note how much each item bothered you or interfered with your life in the last month. If you avoided things due to these symptoms, take that into account in your rating. Rate them as follows:

0 = Did not bother me at all /no avoidance due to symptoms / did not interfere with my life

1 = Bothered me a little / some avoidance due to symptoms / interfered with my life a little

2 = Bothered me a moderate amount / avoided several things due to symptoms / interfered with my life quite a bit

3 = Bothered me a lot / avoided many things  due to symptoms / significant interference with my life

Washing and Cleaning
___ 1. I avoid touching certain things because of possible contamination.
___ 2. I have difficulty picking up items that have dropped on the floor.
___ 3. I clean my household excessively.
___ 4. I wash my hands excessively.
___ 5. I often take extremely long showers or baths.
___ 6. I’m overly concerned with germs and diseases.

Checking and Repeating
___ 1. I frequently have to check things over and over again.
___ 2. I have difficulty finishing things because I repeat actions.
___ 3. I often repeat actions in order to prevent something bad from happening.
___ 4. I worry excessively about making mistakes.
___ 5. I worry excessively that someone will get harmed because of me.
___ 6. Certain thoughts that come into my mind make me do things over and over again.

Ordering Rituals
___ 1. I must have certain things around me set in a specific order.
___ 2. I spend much time making sure that things are in the right place.
___ 3. I notice immediately when my things are out of place.
___ 4. It is important that my bed is straightened out impeccably.
___ 5. I need to arrange certain things in special patterns.
___ 6. When my things are rearranged by other people, I get extremely upset.

Thinking Rituals
___ 1. Repeating certain words or numbers in my head makes me feel good.
___ 2. I often have to say certain things to myself again and again in order to feel safe.
___ 3. I find myself spending a lot of time praying for non-religious purposes.
___ 4. “Bad” thoughts force me to think about “good” thoughts.
___ 5. I try to remember events in detail or make mental lists to prevent unpleasant consequences.
___ 6. The only way I can stay calm at times is by thinking the “right” things.

Worries and Obsessions
___ 1. I often get upset by unpleasant thoughts that come into my mind against my will.
___ 2. I usually have doubts about the simple everyday things I do.
___ 3. I have no control over my thoughts.
___ 4. Frequently the things that pop into my mind are shameful, frightening, violent, or bizarre.
___ 5. I’m afraid that my bad thoughts will come true.
___ 6. When I start to worry, I cannot easily stop.
___ 7. Little, insignificant events make me worry excessively.

Time Spent on OCD Symptoms

The amount of time you spend on your symptoms is another indication of how much it intrudes in your life. In the past month, how much time have you spent, on an average day, engaged in these symptoms.

Hours/Minutes
________ Washing and Cleaning
________ Checking and Repeating
________ Ordering
________ Thinking Rituals
________ Worrying or Obsessing
________ Total Hours (on an average day)

When to Get Help for OCD

If you find that some symptoms bother you a lot or you are spending more than one hour per day on your symptoms, then you might have a clinical level of OCD. You should see a mental health therapist for an evaluation and possible treatment. The earlier you get help, the better as repeating rituals frequently increases anxiety and OCD.

Where to Get Help for OCD

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley specializes in obsessive compulsive disorders in adults, children and teenagers. With our convenient location just a 1/2 mile from highways 85 and the Saratoga Avenue exit, we serve the Silicon Valley communities of San Jose, Saratoga, Mountain View, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, Los Gatos, Los Altos, Palo Alto, Cupertino and Campbell, CA. Contact us at (408) 384-8404 for more information on how we can help you overcome your OCD symptoms.

Source: This OCD Quiz was modified from the questionnaire appearing on anxieties.com.

Pediatric OCD Treatment for Children and Teens

OCD Treatment for Children and Teenagers

notobsessiveI just had the honor of attending the OCD Foundation’s first-ever Behavior Therapy Training Institute on Pediatric OCD, which was held at Rogers Memorial Hospital in Wisconsin in mid-September. The treatment for children and teens with OCD is not all that different from adults. The main components of OCD treatment include:

  • Education/Rapport Building (what is OCD? building the client’s trust)
  • Cognitive Therapy (motivation, naming and externalizing the OCD, responding to content vs themes, etc)
  • Exposure and Response Prevention (identifying triggers and gradually exposing the child until anxiety declines)
  • Family Therapy (teaching parents how to help their child)
  • Contingency Management (setting up a reward plan to increase motivation)
  • Relapse Prevention (what to do at the early signs of anxiety or stress)

While we do use cognitive strategies especially for motivation with children, we emphasize behavioral strategies even more with children. Children often aren’t able to articulate the thoughts driving their rituals. They may say “I don’t know” or “It just feels right” or “I can’t help it.” As children and teens mature, it may seem their OCD is becoming more sophisticated because they start attributing reasons to why they do things.

When we are assessing OCD in children, teens or adults, the process is the same. The therapist will be thinking about these factors:

  • Triggers: What stimuli trigger the obsession?
  • Obsession: What is the core fear?
  • Compulsions: How does the person attempt to neutralize the obsession?

There are four main steps in designing a personalized OCD treatment program for your child or teen.

Step 1: Define the Obsessions and Select the First Target Obsession to Work on

First, we need to determine if the thought is an obsession. If your child has a strange or irrational thought and can dismiss it, it’s not an obsession. Normal people have intrusive thoughts but the difference is that people without OCD do not attribute much meaning to them. Most people just shrug it off as a strange thought and go on with their day.

People often confuse the obsessions associated with OCD with the worries associated with Generalized Anxiety Disorder. It’s a worry if the content focuses on everyday problems that cause stress. GAD often has the same obsessional, repetitive feel to it except the theme of the worries are about real problems happening in the child’s life such as school, health, friends or family issues. An obsession, in contrast, is an intrusive, repetitive thought with senseless content. In children, common obsessions include doing things repeatedly until it feels “just right,” bad thoughts about sex or violence, superstitious thinking, and irrational concern about germs.

Step 2: Identify the Obsessions/Triggers and related Compulsions

Next, we need to identify the compulsions (rituals) that go along with the obsessive thoughts and what triggers the obsessive-compulsive cycle. External triggers are easier to work with because they are things, people, places or situations that scare people and trigger the OCD cycle. The types of OCD that usually involve external triggers include contamination, just right/not right obsessions, and doubt and uncertainty

Internal triggers, on the other hand, are the thoughts themselves, usually about sex, violence and blasphemy. For a thought to be a trigger, the thought itself must be perceived by the person as being dangerous. There are two categories of thoughts that people perceive as being toxic: the fear that having the thought can make it happen and/or the fear that having thought means something bad about the person who is experiencing the thoughts.

Step 3: Develop the Exposure Hierarchy

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is the gold standard for treating OCD in all age groups. ERP is teaching you and your child an approach to life. Your child will learn that when something makes him afraid, he will face it. He will learn to approach his fears systematically through the Exposure Hierarchy. To develop a hierarchy, we will identify all the internal and external triggers for the obsessions and rank order them by level of difficulty. We will then proceed by working with you and your child in baby steps to approach their fears. We’ll use the feeling thermometer to help your child rate the difficulty of tasks. We will ask the parent to serve as the child’s ERP coach to help remind your child to practice their exposures during the week.

Step 4: Identify Response Prevention Guidelines for the Compulsions

The final step is to identify the compulsions (rituals) and to develop Response Prevention Guidelines that sound like this:
“When I get urge to (do my ritual), I will resist the urge and do this instead: XYZ.”

There are two categories of compulsions: Behavioral vs. Mental. Behavioral compulsions are things you can see your child doing such as washing, checking, reassurance seeking, straightening, etc. Mental compulsions are done in the child’s head and you may not even know they are doing them. These include counting, praying, figuring things out, replacing bad thoughts with good thoughts and mental checking.

We also need to determine if the compulsions are non-functional vs dysfunctional. Non-functional compulsions (rituals) are behaviors have no function other than to reduce anxiety related to OCD anxiety. Since these are non-sensical behaviors (like tapping three times on a door), our treatment plan will focus on eliminating these behaviors entirely because they have no function.

Dysfunctional compulsions (rituals) are excesses of normal behavior. We can’t completely eliminate these behaviors because done in moderation, they are normal behaviors like normal washing normal checking and normal prayer. For these, we help your child develop new rules for normal behavior.

During planned daily exposure time there is a schedule and specific tasks to be completed each day. Planned exposure time is generally 30 min to one hour per day. We’ll teach your child to engage in the obsessive thought while resisting the urge to ritualize. We will teach them that “When I get urge to …., I will resist the urge and do this instead …” We will also do some cognitive restructuring work where your child will learn to accept and even welcome anxiety and uncertainty by purposely choosing to expose himself to his triggers, knowing this will trigger his obsessive thoughts and urges to neutralize the anxiety with rituals.

The rest of the day, the child is taught how to deal with spontaneous exposures, or when the obsessive thoughts are triggered outside of planned exposure time. Again, we will teach your child that “When I get urge to …., I will resist the urge and do this instead …” We will help him learn to try to resist doing the compulsion and to focus on what he needs to doing instead (doing homework, watching TV, listening to music, paying attention in class, talking with friends, etc). The child will also have a list of guidelines to follow for any dysfunctional compulsions he may have an urge to do.

The key to Exposure and Response Prevention is to be ready to face your fears and to do your homework every night. You and your child will learn to ride up and down the OCD anxiety hill and beat OCD.

Playing the Anxiety Mental Game

Anxiety Mental GameIn July, I had the privilege of traveling to Chicago to observe a two-day intensive live Anxiety & OCD treatment group led by Reid Wilson, Ph.D. There were eight people in the group with anxiety and OCD, many of whom had been suffering for years with chronic anxiety, panic, social anxiety, depression, obsessive thoughts, mental rituals and/or compulsive behaviors. I was skeptical the morning of the first day. Reid Wilson was making some big claims like “You will need to trust me. You can listen and think you will work on it later…and you will fail. Or you can listen and act – today – and begin your healing.” Given the severity of this group’s long-standing problems with anxiety and OCD, I didn’t believe that these folks could achieve significant progress by the end of a two-day, 16 hour treatment group. Boy was I wrong!

Steps To Playing the Anxiety Mental Game

Dr. Wilson spent the first four hours introducing the concepts behind the Anxiety Mental Game and enhancing motivation to play the game. He said, “You have OCD or Anxiety. You’ve been working on it, struggling with it, worrying about it, trying to control it, and you haven’t won yet.” Dr. Wilson said the only way to win against anxiety is to follow some paradoxically absurd strategies. He outlined three steps:

  • The first step is to identify how anxiety is ruining your life and to identify how your future will be different if you face your fears. This step creates your reason or motivation for wanting to play this game. You need to have a compelling reason because this game is hard.
  • The second step is to understand the principles behind playing the anxiety game. You need to be able to gain a mental shift from “I must avoid anxiety at all costs” to “I want to seek out anxiety (frequency), I want it to be strong (intensity), and I want it to last (duration).” And you need to learn that “whatever happens, I can handle it.”
  • The third step is to provoke anxiety. Instead of avoiding, resisting or simply tolerating anxiety (which is where anxiety wins), you need to proactively invite more anxiety into your daily life. This means being able to genuinely believe and tell yourself, “I really want anxiety to keep happening. I win if it keeps happening” and then to go out and actually create opportunities (called “exposures” or “behavioral experiments”) to feel anxious.

You might be thinking, “I am already doing the things that make me anxious. How can doing more of them help?” The difference is you are probably muscling through your daily life if you aren’t actively avoiding. You are probably telling yourself, “This is uncomfortable. My anxiety is unbearable. I can’t handle this anymore. I need relief from anxiety.” And you might go into anxiety-provoking situations with some subtle safety behaviors to try to protect yourself, like over-preparing, not talking, leaving early, sitting in a place where you won’t be noticed or distracting yourself during the situation.

Preparing to Play The Anxiety Mental Game

To prepare for the Anxiety Mental Game, the group members were asked to identify and review their hierarchy of anxiety-provoking content and to pick one item that they would practice experiencing at lunch time. Every time the group member could enthusiastically say things to themselves when they felt anxious like “Excellent! Just what I wanted,” or “I can handle this,”  or “Give me your best shot. I want my life back,” they would get a point. Dr. Wilson gave each group member a clicker to keep track of their points. After lunch, they came back and reported on how many points they had accumulated. Some of the folks had 80+ points in just two hours!

In addition to the new self-talk, the participants were also coached about where to put their attention while they were playing the Anxiety Mental Game. Dr. Wilson said, “The problem is not what you think it is. The problem is not the content of your fears. The problem is where you put your attention. You will either pay attention to the content (i.e. your list of anxiety-provoking fears, worries and other negative thoughts) or you will pay attention to anything else. You will decide – moment by moment. You have to choose to withdraw your attention from your content. That is your job here.”

Rules for Winning the Anxiety Mental Game

Winning the Anxiety Mental GameThe way to win the Anxiety Mental Game is to change your frame of reference from “This is serious and dangerous” to “This is a mental game.” The new rules you need to learn are:

  1. Do not pay attention to your content.
  2. Accept obsessive and anxious thoughts when they pop up.
  3. Want to make yourself uncertain about the content.
  4. Want to be anxious and stay anxious.
  5. If necessary, make rules and follow them (to get you through the exposures).

By the end of the two-day treatment group, all the group members reported some amount of reduction in their anxiety and fears. Through the exposures, they learned that “This is hard and I want it” and “I can handle this.” By observing the group members’ improvements, I became a believer in the power of playing this mental game to beat anxiety and OCD.

You can listen to Reid Wilson talking about the Anxiety Mental Game by clicking to listen to this Anxiety Mental Game podcast. If you are interested in learning to play the Anxiety Mental Game, call us at (408) 384-8404 to set up an appointment with one of our therapists.