Archive for Positive Psychology

New Year, Improved You

New Years is a time to reflect on your life and reevaluate the things you want to change or improve. It is easy to come up with a list of goals, but often times those goals are given up on relatively quickly. It is incredibly common for New Years resolutions to be given up on by February. Here are some helpful ways to try and stick to your resolutions and see them through.

  • Keep your resolutions simple. Many people want to completely change their lifestyle. While there’s nothing wrong with wanting to change things about yourself, it can be difficult to take on a large task such as changing your lifestyle. It’s better to break things down into smaller steps and portions.
  • Give yourself deadlines. By breaking down your goals and giving yourself deadlines, you’re more likely going to follow through. It’s also helpful to use actual dates. For example: I will read one book by February 1, 2019. When your deadline is vague, it is easier to not follow through.
  • Write things down. Keep a journal, or use a calendar. You’re more likely to follow through and keep yourself accountable when you write things down.
  • Be realistic. Don’t set unrealistic expectations for yourself. You know yourself better than anyone. If you are someone that doesn’t exercise at all, it isn’t realistic to set the goal that you’ll work out every single day. You can have a big goal, but break it down into pieces. Keeping deadlines is helpful with this. For example, say you want to work out two days a week in January, and then step it up to three days a week in February.
  • Keep track of your progress. This will help you stay focused and motivate you to keep going.
  • Remember to be positive and kind to yourself. Negative thoughts and self doubt will quickly shut you down and keep you from reaching your goals. “You are far too smart to be the only thing standing in your way.”

How to Get Help in San Jose/Los Gatos

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center in Silicon Valley (San Jose/Los Gatos) specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Call us in Los Gatos at (408) 384-8404 or Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

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The Happiness Trap

The Happiness Trap: How to Stop Struggling and Start Living

Author: Russ Harris

Russ Harris, in his book The Happiness Trap, does a fantastic job of breaking down the concepts of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) into digestible and manageable steps in order to untangle from the unworkable control strategies humans use to try to “solve” internal experiences.  We all tend to fight “negative” or unwanted internal experiences (i.e., feeling any way uncomfortable) and try to grab hold of something “positive” or wanted; however, we end up feeling even more miserable. The author reviews the myths of happiness and what we do internally to actually make ourselves suffer more in pursuit of it.

This book helps readers accept thoughts and feelings, connect with their values, and take effective actions to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life.  It is a great book for anyone who is struggling to find happiness, trapped in a never ending pattern with their thoughts or emotions, struggling with self-esteem, or struggling to get rid of any unwanted discomfort.  And as the title states, this book is for anyone who wants to stop struggling and start living.

How to Get Help in San Jose/Los Gatos

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center in Silicon Valley specializes in therapy and counseling with adults, children and teenagers. Click to send an email for more information on how we can help you or your family members improve your outlook.

Silicon Valley Communities We Serve

Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley offers evidence-based therapy for Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder near the following Silicon Valley/San Jose communities:

San Jose Therapy CounselingSaratoga Therapy CounselingLos Gatos Therapy Counseling Monte Sereno Therapy Counseling • Cupertino Therapy CounselingCampbell Therapy CounselingMountain View Therapy CounselingLos Altos Therapy CounselingSunnyvale Therapy CounselingSanta Clara Therapy Counseling

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Book Review: Same Time Next Week

Stories of Hope and Resilience in Mental Health

Read Laura Johnson’s book review of “Same Time Next Week” on Positive Psychology New Daily:

http://positivepsychologynews.com/news/laura-lc-johnson/2015060331717

How to Get Help for Anxiety, OCD and Anxiety-Related Problems

The Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center of Silicon Valley and Sacramento Valley specializes in Anxiety, OCD and Anxiety-Related Problems in adults, children and teenagers. We have two convenient locations to serve you.

The Silicon Valley office in Saratoga serves the Santa Clara County communities of San Jose, Saratoga, Mountain View, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, Los Gatos, Los Altos, Palo Alto, Cupertino, Campbell and surrounding areas.

The Sacramento Valley office in Roseville serves the Placer County and Sacramento County communities of Sacramento, Roseville, Rocklin, Granite Bay, Lincoln, Folsom, Citrus Heights, El Dorado Hills, Loomis, Auburn, Penryn, Grass Valley, Colfax and surrounding areas.

Email us for more information on how we can help you overcome your anxiety-related problems.

Positive Strength-Based Counseling and Therapy

Note: This article was first published on Positive Psychology News Daily on August 25, 2014

Counseling Psychology is Positive and Strength-Based

Many psychotherapists across many different theoretical models and client populations are already using a positive, strength-based approach to therapy. I was fortunate to graduate from Santa Clara University’s Counseling Psychology Program. The courses were diverse and included positive psychology, health psychology, mindfulness-based stress reduction, cognitive behavior therapy and multicultural counseling, to name just a few. For me, integrating my preferred therapy style, cognitive behavior therapy, with positive psychology felt natural. I often scratch my head about the division between psychotherapy and positive psychology. I believe an effective therapist not only wants to alleviate pain and suffering, but also optimize well-being and functioning. I don’t want clients just to survive. I want to help them thrive.

What is Counseling Psychology?

A core component of Counseling Psychology is, and always has been, its strength-based client focus. According to the Society of Counseling Psychology (division 17 of the APA):

“Counseling Psychology is a specialty within professional psychology that maintains a focus on facilitating personal and interpersonal functioning across the life span…The practice of Counseling Psychology encompasses a broad range of culturally-sensitive practices that help people improve their well-being, alleviate distress and maladjustment, resolve crises, and increase their ability to function better in their lives. With its attention to both normal developmental issues as well as problems associated with physical, emotional, and mental disorders, the specialization holds a unique perspective in the broader practice-based areas of psychology.”

How Do Counseling Psychology and Clinical Psychology Differ?
To contrast the two disciplines, clinical psychologists have tended to focus on psychopathology and clients suffering from more severe mental illnesses while counseling psychologists tend to focus on overall well-being through the lifespan and folks who are experiencing less severe symptoms. For example, Donald Super noticed that clinical psychologists tend to focus their attention on “what is wrong and how to treat it,” whereas counseling psychologists look for “what is right and how to help use it.”

How Therapists Use Client Strengths in Therapy

Growth

While there are several theoretical models describing positive, strength-based processes in therapy, there is a scarcity of rigorous scientific studies about how to use positive therapeutic processes in psychological treatment. Scheel, David & Henderson (2012) conducted a small study of eight therapists using a variety of theoretical models in order to identify positive processes that regularly occur in mainstream therapy. The results of the study showed that these therapists recognize the importance of positive processes in therapy and use client strengths to affect therapeutic change.

Gelso and Woodhouse define the use of client strengths as involving two aspects of therapy:

  • Conceptualization process (discovering strengths): a) asking questions about client strengths, b) strengths revealed through the therapeutic relationship, c) strengths embedded in client deficits and d) being able understand meaning and expression of strengths within the client’s cultural context.
  • Therapist enactments (what therapists actually do that uses clients’ strengths in the change process): a) pointing out strengths to the client, b) positive reframing of strengths, and use of strengths to solve problems, and c) attending to strengths embodied in defenses and perceived deficits.

Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) Focuses on the Positive Processes

Let me quote James Harbin and colleagues:

umbrella“CBT interventions focus not only on decreasing negative behaviors but also on increasing positive behaviors…Consistent with strength-based approaches, then, cognitive-behavioral therapists may purposefully encourage client progress to reinforce their hard work in therapy. Strength-based approaches can also be incorporated into goal setting and cognitive restructuring techniques often used in CBT.”

Five General Themes

In-depth interviews with the eight therapists conducted by Scheel, Davis & Henderson (2012) produced 266 significant statements related to how therapists identify and incorporate strengths in the therapy process.

This leads to five themes and associated interventions:

Theme Definition Tools used
Amplification of Strengths A therapeutic process where positive aspects of the client and his/her context are emphasized
  • exception finding
  • encouragement
  • the therapist role of amplifier
Contextual Considerations When and how to use client strengths
  • barriers to the use of client strengths
  • client characteristics
  • matching strengths with problems
Strength-Oriented Processes Therapy experiences that identify, develop, emphasize and refine strengths
  • the identification process
  • the therapeutic relationship
  • the therapist as an agent of change
  • client participation in identifying strengths.
Strength-Oriented Outcomes Using client strengths to increase their motivation to want to make changes in their life
  • instilling hope and empowerment
  • self-awareness
  • goals and motivation
Positive Meaning Making Narratives clients provide about their past life experiences and how they coped with their difficulties
  • balancing strengths and problems
  • use of metaphor to access strength
  • resiliency
  • generalization of strengths

Advantages of Focusing on Strengths in Therapy

On the path to optimal functioning

Therapists described strengths work as having many advantages. It was perceived as building trust in the therapeutic relationship, motivating and instilling hope in the client, and demonstrating the therapist’s hope for and belief in the client. In addition, the use of client strengths in therapy is thought to increase client cooperation and acceptance of therapy, and to prevent other problems, promote human growth, and maximize human potential.

A Call for Science

In conclusion, there is a great need for scientific efforts to support and develop evidence-based treatments incorporating positive therapeutic processes. According to Gelso & Woodhouse (2012), “the promotion of human strengths and assets is nowhere more prevalent than in the field of counseling psychology, yet scientific inquiry is needed to advance strength-oriented practices in psychological treatment.”


Resources:

Gelso, C. J. & Woodhouse, S. (2003). Toward a positive psychology: Focus on human strength. In B. W. Walsh (Ed.), Counseling psychology and optimal human functioning (pp. 171-197). Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.

Harbin, J. M., Gelso, C. J. & Perez Rojas, A. E. (2013). Therapist work with client strengths: Development and validation of a measure. The Counseling Psychologist, XX(X), 1-29.

Scheel, M. J., Davis, C. K., & Henderson, J. D. (2012). Therapist use of client strengths: a qualitative study of positive processes. The Counseling Psychologist, XX(X), 1-36. Society of Counseling Psychology (division 17 of the APA)

Super, D. E. (1977). The identity crisis of counseling psychologists. The Counseling Psychologist, 7, 13-15.

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Tree of Strengths courtesy of RichardStep.com
Move, Change, Adapt courtesy of RichardStep.com
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You courtesy of RichardStep.com

A Mindful Approach for Chronic Depression

Chronic Unhappiness is Hard to Change

It’s challenging to try to help people change who have had a lifetime of mental suffering and hold deeply-entrenched negative beliefs about themselves and the world. The other day I was working with a client who yelled out in pain, “There’s nothing positive about my situation!”  I sat there feeling helpless because I could see his strengths, but my words fell on deaf ears.

Cycles

Cycles

One type of therapy I am exploring for clients with chronic depression is Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), which was developed by Segal, Williams, and Teasdale. They found that people who hold depressive thinking styles are more easily triggered into depressive episodes. The more times this happens, the stronger the neurological connections become and the more likely they are to experience another depressive cycle.

What is MBCT?

MBCT combines mindfulness and cognitive therapy. It is generally taught in an eight-week class of two hours each plus one full-day session. Participants learn mindfulness techniques like the three-minute breathing space, which helps them to call upon mindfulness in stressful moments.

The cognitive therapy component includes learning about negative thinking styles and your own automatic thought patterns, reframing negative thoughts as part of the landscape of depression, recognizing that thoughts aren’t facts and asking yourself questions to help you see reality more clearly. Homework includes using CDs with guided meditations at home.

Crouching Tiger

MBCT in Action

Let’s say you have just gotten chewed out by your boss for turning in a report with several mistakes. Your normal mode of responding might be to defend yourself and argue, “You didn’t give me enough time.” Or maybe it’s to passively listen and then sulk at your desk with thoughts like “I’m no good at this job” and “He’s always such a jerk.” For someone with a strong negative thinking style, this could be enough to trigger depression.

Instead, you can use the three-minute mindful breathing meditation to become aware of the thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations that arise in the moment of a challenging situation. The goal of the three-minute breathing space isn’t to take away negative feelings. It’s to help you access a clearer frame of mind so you can respond to stressful situations more skillfully and use different approaches to relate to your thoughts.

Promise

Promise

Promising Research for MBCT

The National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence in the United Kingdom recommends MBCT for people who are currently well but have experienced three or more depressive episodes. In 2000, a research study found that 66% of participants in MBCT remained relapse-free vs. 34% in the control group. Another study in 2004 replicated the results and found the rate of relapse to be 36% in MBCT group vs. 78% in the control group. MBCT was not found to be effective in people with one or two depressive episodes.

MBCT and Positive Psychology

MBCT has some strategies in common with positive psychology. MBCT helps participants to:

  • Observe their negative thoughts with curiosity and kindness
  • To accept themselves and stop wishing things were different
  • To let go of old habits and choose a different way of being
  • To be present in the moment and notice small beauties and pleasures in the world

Appreciating Beauty

Appreciating Beauty

Just Notice

MBCT is intriguing because the goal isn’t to analyze and change your negative thoughts, but instead to simply be aware of your thoughts and learn to regard them as events of the mind. MBCT teaches people to notice their thought patterns and to change their relationship to their thoughts. Instead of believing the things your mind tells you like, “I am loser because I’ll never get a date,” you might instead just notice, “There’s that thought again that I’m a loser,” without having to react to it.

By noticing when you are at risk of getting caught in the negative habits of your mind, you will be more able to prevent sadness from spiraling into full-blown depression.


References:

Ma, S.H., & Teasdale, J.D. (2004). Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy for depression: Replication and exploration of differential relapse prevention effects. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 72, 31-40.

Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy sites:

www.mbct.com
www.mbct.co.uk

National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence, United Kingdom. Depression: The treatment and management of depression in adults (see page 10)

Segal, Williams & Teasdale. (2001). Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Depression: A New Approach to Preventing RelapseGuilford Press.

Teasdale, J. D., Segal, Z. V., Williams, J. M. G., Ridgeway, V., Soulsby, J., & Lau, M. (2000). Prevention of relapse/recurrence in major depression by mindfulness-based cognitive therapy.. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 68, 615-623.

Williams, M., Teasdale, J., Segal, Z. & Kabat-Zinn, J. (2007). The Mindful Way through Depression: Freeing Yourself from Chronic Unhappiness. Guilford Press.

Images
Cycles courtesy of Mike Cattell
Crouching Tiger (butterfly) courtesy of Ajith U
Colorful World of Things Natural (flower) courtesy of sling@flickr
Batur Volcano and Lake (Appreciating Beauty) courtesy of tropicalLiving

 

Note: This article originally appeared on Positive Psychology News Daily on October 25, 2010. Reprinted with permission of the editors at PPND.